My Motto for Life: “Romanticise the World”
If there’s one thing I’ve learned in my lust for life is that it’s all about making it feel more like an indie film and a little less like a laundry list of tasks. Life is infinitely better when you romanticise the world. To me, it’s not about ignoring reality but dressing it up a little—finding beauty in the mundane. I’ve always been drawn to the experience of everyday moments—those fleeting, seemingly insignificant instances that hold a quiet magic. A cup of tea steaming on a windowsill, the sunlight on cobblestones, the sound of your favourite song or a sweet scent that somehow makes you think of an old love. Call me sentimental, but I’d rather live as if I’m starring in my own heartfelt montage.
Sometimes, even sadness has a strange kind of beauty. Melancholy is poetic—it’s the deep breath before you write a tear-stained journal entry or the rain against your window as you watch the world blur. Romanticising these moments doesn’t mean glorifying pain; it’s about finding the thread of beauty in them. It’s turning the gray clouds of your mood into a mood board for something meaningful. Think about the songs you listen to when you’re sad—aren’t they somehow the most beautiful? There’s a reason heartbreak inspires art. Melancholy teaches us to sit with our emotions, to feel deeply, and to reflect. There’s a quiet intimacy in sadness, a rawness that makes us human. It’s in these moments that we often understand ourselves better, that we tap into creativity, and that we can connect with others on a deeply empathetic level. If happiness is the sunlight, then melancholy is the moonlight—subtle, softer, but no less enchanting.
Whether it’s a perfectly curated Pinterest board or the way you drape a scarf over your shoulder just so, aesthetics matter. They’re not frivolous; they’re how we make the ordinary extraordinary. You’d be amazed at how putting fresh flowers on your desk or lighting a candle can transform the day. Dress up—even if it’s just for yourself. Buy the fancy notebook. Life’s too short to wait for special occasions to make things lovely. The secret? When everything feels like an occasion, the world begins to sparkle.
What’s a leading lady without her ensemble cast? Friends and love bring color to the grayscale moments of life, and they deserve their own cinematic close-ups. Romanticising your relationships means treasuring the traditions you share—like going to your favourite places together every week or sending secrets at midnight. Love, whether it’s a partner or platonic, is a story worth cherishing. It’s finding poetry in the way someone knows your coffee order or sends you photos of something that made them think of you.
Advice: How to Find Beauty in the Mundane
- Slow Down: Sometimes beauty hides in plain sight, but you have to stop rushing to notice it. Look up at the trees, watch the clouds, or just admire the way your tea steams in the morning light.
- Set the Scene:Create a little theater of beauty in your everyday life. Decorate your bedroom with soft lighting and cozy textures, and surround yourself with curated trinkets that tell your story—a seashell from a past trip, a framed photo, or a little statue that makes you smile. Turn even the most mundane routines into rituals that feel intentional and special.
- Look for Small Joys:Notice the quiet wonders around you—a stranger’s unexpected kindness, the satisfying crunch of leaves beneath your feet, chirping of birds in the morning, savoring how soft fabric feels warm and comforting against your skin. Seek out moments that make you pause, breathe, and feel grateful.
- Document It: Take photos, keep a journal, or make playlists that capture how a moment feels. Memory fades, but art keeps the beauty alive.
Life won’t always hand you grand, sweeping gestures, but it will give you endless small moments of wonder if you know how to look for them. Immerse yourself in a story that changes the way you see the world. Devour a book that opens your eyes to new truths and shakes the foundations of everything you thought you knew. Watch a film that lights a fire in your soul, reminding you of the beauty, power, and fragility of the human experience. Here’s to romanticising the world—may your days feel like poetry and your nights like dreams. Now go light that candle.


